Who's my Real Best Friend?

"A friend is the one who comes in when the whole world has gone out." -Grace Pulpit

"A true friend is one who thinks you are a good egg even if you are half-cracked."

"Remember, we all stumble, every one of us. That's why it's a comfort to go hand in hand." -Emily Kimbrough

"A friend accepts us as we are yet helps us to be what we should."

"You can always tell a real friend: when you've made a fool of yourself he doesn't feel you've done a permanent job." -Laurence J. Peter

"The most beautiful discovery true friends make is that they can grow separately without growing apart."

"When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives mean the most to us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds with a warm and tender hand. The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing, not curing, not healing and face with us the reality of our powerlessness, that is a friend who cares." -Henri Nouwen

"A true friend unbosoms freely, advises justly, assists readily, adventures boldly, takes all patiently, defends courageously, and continues a friend unchangeably." -William Penn

"Shared joy is a double joy; shared sorrow is half a sorrow."

"Oh, the comfort, the inexpressible comfort of feeling safe with a person, having neither to weigh thoughts nor measure words, but pouring them all out, just as they are, chaff and grain together, certain that a faithful hand will take and sift them, keep what is worth keeping, and with a breath of kindness blow the rest away." -Dinah Craik

"I felt it shelter to speak to you." -Emily Dickinson

“When it hurts to look back, and you're scared to look ahead, you can look beside you and your best friend will be there”

“A friend is someone who lets you have total freedom to be yourself.” -Jim Morrison

“Friends are angels who lift our feet when our own wings have trouble remembering how to fly.”

“The only service a friend can really render is to keep your courage by holding up to you a mirror in which you can see a noble image of yourself” -George Bernard Shaw

“Search not for a friend in time of need, for a true friend shall find thee.”

“I would prefer as friend a good man ignorant than one more clever who is evil too.”

"Best friend is someone who knows all about you and loves you anyway."

"When you look around and your world is crumbling or when you think no one loves you, your best friend is the one to run to you."

"When you are sad anyone can tell you it’s gonna be okay, but a true friend will mean it"

"A true friend will be you candle when it’s dark, your hope when it’s gone, and take your pain when it hurts"




At least now when I think very very hard, when I open my eyes so wide to look at all the past...

I know who is not. That person was never there for me truly, we were never connected, we were never even friends, we were strangers. Didn't accept me, didn't bother knowing me, didn't appreciate me, didn't care about me, didn't love me, didn't even want to talk to me. We did all the things best friends do, but we just weren't ones. Only there when we were happy, and not when we had problems and sad. What kind of "best friends" do that? And that's when I got mad and fuck everything up because I was so depressed with this false knowledge, I was all by myself the whole time and I was the only one that cares. At the end, it shows that I was right, you just don't care about us enough to solve things together anyway. and you can have your other "best friends" with you there now in your new life. I should have known better, why the hell did I trust our "past" and thought we will be best friends forever in our lives and can go through tough times together forever? I should be happy that I'm awake! For I found out I have a false best friend for way too long.

We Never were best friends, and probably never will be.

Good to know!

Who's my real best friends? God! and a few of my friends that I overlooked before, they are here for me, not only happy times!