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What a great feeling.
I had been wanting this for quite a while.

Why would I want to keep people that doesn't even make it to be my acquaintance on my "friends' lists" Honestly, I am tired of keeping these unnecessary ties when I barely meet any of these people more than once or twice in the past 10 years, in fact, most, in my life time!

So I now enforcing this policy: even though we might had dinner or party together, there's still a long way till we are friends. No offense. (I'm not doubting the possibility of making friend with a friend's friend though, cos certainly there are many friends I known through this way, but when we obviously didn't click, and we probably never again will talk or contact each other, why do you want to keep me on the "friends list"??)

It's a great feeling that I now feel safe to do or post whatever on facebook. and whenever I log on, I don't have to keep seeing these updates by someone I cannot remember who (do I care if your going to New Zealand in 10 days? do I care if your madly in love? do I care if you had a great meal at Indian Palace with your best friends? do I care to see your photos with you and your girlfriend making out? do I care to know that you have just got this nice shoes for $XX! ??... you might think I'm just "jealous" to see updates hahha.. maybe.. but for most part, it's more like do I really care any of these when we don't even say hi or talk at all?)

Doing this now save me the time to even consider or clicking the hide button to hide them from my page hahahha... again, no offense, it's just that a connection is a connection, but when there's really none, there's no point to keep it.

"you never know, maybe this person can get you a job, a boyfriend, blah blah blah.." don't tell me this. I don't need to keep unnecessary connections just so I can get something out of it, when your looking to get something from someone, there's no friendship there, what's the point to pretend to be friends? Never use anyone, I never do and never will (if you know me well, you barely see me asking people for a favor or help for my own good) It's my code of moral, be true and honest. I feel very content and I don't use friends or keep friends for any benefits :P hahah (no, not "those" benefits your thinking)

Friendships happens when it happens. No force is need.
Done, great!